Bitches and hoes.

I find it interesting how, whenever a woman refuses to give a man what he wants, all of a sudden she’s a slut, a hoe, bitch, a hater, a something. Why is that? I mean, what reasons do these so-called men have to justify calling me a slut? Is it because I have self respect and refuse to compromise myself and my dignity to them lonely ass, sex deprived desperados? If that is indeed the reason why, then I certainly have no problem climbing up to the mountain tops and yelling it loud and proud, “I’m a sluuuut!” I’m a slut for respecting myself and for refusing to give in to a bunch of sex crazed creepos. T’aha. I mean, truth is: We, ladies, are put in a real messed up, lose-lose situation. Fuck with him, you’re a slut. Refuse to bend over, you’re a bitch. So which is it gonna be? Me, I’d much rather be called eeeevery name in the book if I know it’s because I put myself first before any lameass, sweet talkin’ perv. But hey, that’s just me. Fuck what creepos say about you. You know who you are and if to them, you’re a slut, then it don’t matter because they don’t matter. That’s my mentality.

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“You’re bound to run into the walls you build in life…”

You know what I find a bit funny and ironic? I find it funny how, even with all the walls we build as protection against people who have the potential of hurting us, the only person that does end up hurting you is the one person you let into your life, into your heart, and passed those useless walls. As cynical as that may sound, you’ve got to admit that it’s true. So, with that in mind, I can’t help but think: Can we ever be 100% trusting and certain that the person we’re letting into our lives won’t hurt us? Answer is: We can’t. No one can. Just as the saying goes, “Tomorrow isn’t guaranteed”. Well, hate to admit it, but neither are anyone’s feelings. I mean, hey, we’ve all had a change of heart. Whether it be for Team Edward or Team Jacob or for our 20 different crushes in the 8th grade. It happens. But, what I’m trying to say is this: No one ever guaranteed that we wouldn’t be hurt and we can never be 110% trusting, so what’s one to do? Well, we just simply have to maintain faith in ourselves and the people we let into our lives. Faith that they won’t do us wrong. Faith that they have enough strength in themselves to keep their word and stay true, stay loyal. And, faith that we, ourselves, stay strong if or when things do go awry. Hey, that’s our only weapon - Staying positive and keeping faith. So, don’t let the thought of hurt and heartache keep you from tearing down those walls and letting people into your lives. Keep your chin up and things should be okay.

Trust me.

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her swag was unforgettable, lips were truly edible, love went hand in hand, we put each other on the pedestal.

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